When my children were small, there would be many times I would announce a family outing. “Come on kids, we are all going to Taylor’s Falls (a beautiful river and mountainous hiking area) for a picnic and hiking. You have a half hour to get ready to go.” With four children, there were always different ideas about what they wanted to do. “Oh dad, do we have to go there again, we just went last year?” “I don’t want to go hiking, can’t we just hang out around the house?” and so on.
Planning these kinds of days took some work and preparation, so I was at times, tempted to get a little upset with their attitude. Renee was great to remind me of our approach to situations like this. “Don’t worry,” she’d say. “I just tell them, this isn’t a democracy or something that’s up for a vote.” “I get this from them all the time whether it’s hauling them to a grocery store or wherever. I just try to make it fun and they are usually glad.” I agreed with her. I had seen exactly that happen, time and time again. We’d usually have a great time and the kids would end up thrilled that we went. I’d ask them on the way home, “Well are you guys glad we went today?” With a sheepish look they’d say, ”Yes dad. You were right and we were wrong. Thank you for taking us – it was really fun!”
Galatians 5:16 says, “…live according to your new life in the Holy Spirit. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.”There are many times where our flesh and our soulish man (our mind and emotions) want to do the wrong thing or are lazy and don’t want to do anything. Our flesh and soul seldom like discipline, or moderation, or doing things that we know are good for us. How many times have you thought about getting up and exercising, or reading your Bible and praying, or beginning a diet, only to abandon those thoughts in a very short time?
Most mornings I will go through an exercise routine. Very seldom as I drag my body out of bed, is it excited about jumping into an exercise routine. Yet I know I will be glad once I’m done. If there were 20 things I should do to start out my day, flossing my teeth would be the last on the list yet I know it’s important and so I do it.
Over the years there have been many areas in my life where I needed to learn to make changes that the Holy Spirit was showing me to make. Those little changes yielded huge results – a happier wife, happier kids, and godly disciplines instead of lazy attitudes. These changes literally changed my character and made me a better man over time.
As adults, we don’t outgrow the things that come at us that we don’t want to do and that we have to do. We can whine or complain, or we can grow up. We can develop a good attitude or we can bellyache. We want our kids to develop a good attitude. What about us? 2 Cor 7:1 says, “… let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.”
For many people, life can be one big pain in the rear end. It doesn’t have to be. If we will let our minds and emotions be purified by trusting in God’s ways and
Galatians 5:16 “So I advise you to live according to your new life in the Holy Spirit. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.”
In His Love,
Pastor Tim Burt